Call me Frustrated - I Must be a Lost Cause. There aren’t words to express how lost and hopeless I feel. I cannot do the simplest things or follow directions but let me also say that I am not senile or demented. Its hard to even get my mind past the frustration to write something halfway sensible in hopes you can understand or help.
PAIRING MY DEVICES I am nearly reduced to tears even though my education transcript lists my IQ at 127 SO HOW CAN THIS BE? My current problem which is so very frustrating is that even though I have had these new Lumity 90 hearing aids for about 3 months and my Roger Select for about 4 years I CANNOT pair the Select to my new hearing aids which I bought at a discount that require remote programming. It was the only way I could acquire desperately needed new technology. So I cannot go to my audiologist for assistance and I live in a Very Unfriendly small town of 500 where I moved 3 years ago so no helpful souls here. It’s a long story I won’t trouble you with.
I have profound hearing lost and until I got these Lumity aids I was isolated and alone for 3 years because of my hearing disability and my ineffective Phonak marvel 50s. MAYBE in the intervening years of silence trapped inside my head my brain has blown a fuse.
A Small Explanation. I have been overwhelmed with taking care of this property I bought and I am just now able to get a little time for myself.
I confess I have procrastinated trying to do this simple pairing because I have been me long enough to know the frustration it would cause me.
I have watched short videos that seem to be helpful to others but not to me. Maybe I speak a foreign language and so can’t understand directions. I have tried Phonak support but gotten nowhere.
FIRST I TRIED to pair the devices but I only get flashing red light. Maybe it’s because I don’t understand the buttons on back of Roger Select. There are 2 buttons, one with a Dot and the other a symbol. So all the videos are silent, no one speaking about which button they just push a button I can’t seem to see and the music plays a flourish like. Hooray, success.
I am so frustrated that there’s no verbal explanation or description but this pairing should be done in 2 minutes tops apparently but not for Class Clown Me.
I had a rare visit from my 2 sons yesterday and was so hoping to have the pairing process done because the RS really helped word recognition even on my crummy Marvel 50s.
IS THERE HOPE FOR ME? I’m well-read about a lot including causes for people offing themselves but I’ve never found anyone who did it or considered it because of something which seems simple to everyone else but me like this.
If I were crazy maybe it wouldn’t be so mind blowingly frustrating. I held very responsible jobs throughout my life so WHY CAN I NOT do this one simple task.
I suspect by now there are a few forum members who have stopped reading what I write because it’s not believable.
But it is real so PLEASE tell me WHAT THESE buttons are for and HOW I can pair these devices. I’ve been trying almost a week now and getting nowhere.