First issue sounds like it could be triggered by phone notifications. Go in bt settings, disconnect aids from media streaming (leave phone calls if you need them) and check again.
So, you’re in manual, notification comes (doesn’t matter if phone is silent or not), phone sends media stream, aids switch to media stream even if there’s silence, then after that, they switch to default - autosense.
Disabling notifications from firing off, or disconnect bt / bt media is the solution.
Ways around 'other side hears me poorly when I’m in noise:
Someone suggested that they have better experience when aid mic is at -6db or you can try even more, eg your fitter should tweak that, under programming, the one related to the bt calls, in third group from the top (first two are autosense groups).
Also maybe more noise cancelling might help.
This is a wild guess, we here are still not sure what exactly affects it. Try and find out. But don’t expect miracles, if you’re in quiet, it’s best, if there’s slight bg noise (fan, open window), your voice will be altered but comprehensible, if you’re outside walking on busy street or in busy shop, I wouldn’t expect a lot.
Other ways:
First option is to definitely have t-coil aid version, and then buy a neck loop, plug it in audio 3.5 mm on phone, and tell your phone to split the signal (android: lesser audioswitch, iphone supposedly does it automatically), to use mic on phone and loop for audio. Quality for you won’t be the same, but people will hear you from your phone. That’s solution to get the sound in both HAs. And your fitter has to activate t-coil option.
Another way is to get custom program acoustic phone, then you use phone as is meant to, plus you raise it higher so that aid mic can catch signal. And it’s possible to activate (your fitter has to do it) duo, which will then send signals to both aids. For this you don’t need t-coil aid. But you need switch aid into that program manually.
Third way is again with t-coil aid, but only one ear will hear, that’s by activating phone t-coil program in aids (again, your fitter). Unfortunately they don’t have duo option available.
For all three solution you need to manually switch the program first (not a huge problem, your fitter put it as first custom program and then it’s one long click away or short, depending on if you have volume control activated or not on buttons).
So far I’ve tried only acoustic phone, and is doable, but definitely direct streaming is best for me hearing well. So I opt for ‘I’ll call you later when I’m in quiet’.
Oh and there’s fourth/fifth way, but it’s with wires and needs another device, you plug tv connector or roger pen/select, again split signal from phone like in first example, but what you receive should be much clearer.
Caveat, tv connector might disconnect if other side isn’t speaking for like 60 seconds, that happened to people using TV connector on the laptop. Workaround is to plug in adapter that converts audio into optical cable and then connect TV connector with optical cable (cable comes with it, adapter you have to buy). Additionally TV connector needs usb power.
If you need it for the job and you’re sitting, I’d probably opt for tv connector, since you can just put it on the desk with all cables needed.
Roger mics have an advantage of when you are in meeting where several people is on your side and several on the other side of video / phone call, and you listen them through some speaker, since mics are mics, you just put them close to the speaker and sound comes into your ear, no need to figure out how to connect tv connector with wires so that everyone else also hear the other side.
If you’re the only one on this side of call, then wired solution works.