I received a newsletter email and one of the topics discussed in the email was a Youtube video talking about REM and why so many audiologists don’t use REM.
Your Audiologist is Wrong: Real Ear Measurements are ESSENTIAL for Your Hearing Aids to Work Well
As some of you may know, I bought new Oticon Intent 1 hearing aids a couple of months ago from an independent audiologist. I have been very supportive of my new audiologist (despite him not providing REM), because within 2 appointments (in the space of a week or so), he had setup my new hearing aids far better than my old hearing aids ever were. I was able to hear in noisy environments like noisy restaurants and general environments. The previous audiologist took about 8 months to get to the same point and for the first few months the old aids were not really functional. Massive difference with the new audiologist! So I am really supportive of my new audio.
However, while I have found my new audiologist fantastic as I think he really knows his stuff, I am still experiencing the same issues that I had with the previous hearing aids - namely not being able to hear people behind me in the car if they don’t speak loudly, having trouble hearing some people when talking in soft conversational mode (soft voices) and which seems to be a persistent issue with Oticon - a volume/sharpness imbalance between left and right ear where things like microwave beeping etc always seem more present in right ear. As well as other little things, where I am not hearing things that other people seem to hear.
Granted the new hearing aids are setup much better than the old ones and these issues are much lessened. However, I have been feeling lately like we are operating in a black box environment or flying blind - because essentially without REM to verify the fit - neither of us actually know what my ears are actually hearing! I had toyed with the idea of getting a Noahlink device and seeing if I could play with the settings to address the volume imbalance issues and see if I can isolate why I don’t hear things like the clock ticking etc! But after watching this video, I realised that all I would be doing is working in a black box environment doing the same thing my audio is doing - guessing which frequencies I need boosting - instead of verifying what my ears are hearing.
This video got me thinking. Why am I putting up with a situation where I don’t actually know what my ears are hearing, because my audiologist is unable to verify the fit because he doesn’t want to invest in expensive REM equipment? Because let’s be honest, it is the cost that is the real reason why so many audiologists do not support REM - preferring instead to play a guessing game of “how does this sound”. My audiologist is very good - I do hear better with these aids than I did with the previous ones and he managed to get them very well setup within a very short space of time - I can hear very well in noisy environments like restaurants which most people struggle with. So, he has done well. But, they are not optimal because he doesn’t know what my ears hear.
Given that I am still experiencing the same main issues (like not hearing people in the back seat of car) with my new hearing aids as with my old ones (although not anywhere near as bad), it is clear that the Oticon fitting forumula is not accurate for my ears. I suspect that I am significantly underfit for higher frequencies (in probably both ears), but especially left ear.
I really like my new audio and I think he is fantastic and I think he has been really helpful and supportive. So, it has been difficult to accept that I need to move on. I have taken the hard decision to contact another audiologist (who advertise REM and have good Google reviews) and ask them if they could do an REM and they also offer Speech Audiogram (which again my audio does not do). I have asked if they can provide the services, my audio cannot, but if I could continue to work my local audio who is 20 minutes walk away, whereas they are just over an hour’s drive away.
I will update this post, once I have had my REM done and advise whether it actually fixed any of the issues that I am wanting resolved. I am not sure if it will, because I am well aware of many on this forum who have had REM done, yet still go to their audio for many months of tweaking and even bought their own Noahlink devices to self program - so clearly REM is not the end of the road for this process. I actually had REM done on my old aids with the old audiologist and my new aids are still better (without REM), so clearly REM is not everything. But I think I should be able to hear everyone properly in the car and also hear anyone who speaks in soft conversational mode - which is a bit hit and miss for me at the moment. I think the underlying cause is the same - underfit of higher frequencies.
This post is just to say - Even if you are very, very happy with your Audio, if he is not offering REM, then you are not getting the service you deserve. I think my audio is lovely, but I have to accept I am not receiving the best care sadly because I know that I am not hearing all the frequencies that I should be! Be prepared to take the hard choice and fire your audio!
The only reason audio’s don’t support REM is they don’t want to invest in the cost of the equipment which is quite pricey. That is their problem, not yours!
GO GET REM! GET THE BEST CARE! YOU DESERVE IT!
This post is mainly to encourage others to get REM if it has not been done, because without REM you will never get optimal setup for your hearing. It will basically be estimated and guesswork!
I think all governments around the world should mandate REM because frankly it is unacceptable that most audiologists will not spend the money to verify the fit because we are the ones that pay the price with underfit hearing aids that are not performing optimally! Not good enough.