To answer the question in title - BT direct streaming in my HAs
a lot of it
My comprehension will never be great, however, the time I can survive before getting exhausted is now significantly longer. Last week I’ve done 4 hour with microphone in really happy loud crowd at a dinner party of about 15 people around big table and I could follow 90% of conversations (all but one person were new to me, and we spoke in English, but we’re all immigrants, that means various accents all over the place which is/was hard for me even in quiet).
I definitely felt included, but I did miss up few points and jokes. I spoke with several people around my part of the table whilst the other part of the table was loud and making jokes, so really really difficult situation for our tech. Two years ago when I got my aids and microphones I’d shut down and just smile in such situations. Hell, table of 4 where I know all of us at not too loud restaurant was hard, I’d miss quite a lot more of what was being said.
Yes, microphones help to some degree in very difficult situations, aids help in less difficult ones, but as @Neville taught me some time ago - you need to train your brain. And I see that my almost daily streaming with this and that, mostly clear speech - it definitely yielded results.
I could be more active with training, I usually stream something for half an hour (currently simpsons) daily, and then few times a week some podcasts for 1-2 hours. So I’d say at least 1-2 hours on bad weeks for streaming, and maybe an hour for phone calls. And I’m lazy otherwise, a lot of times I use them to mute them to have less sounds
But, I’m doing this for two years now, so THAT’s what matters it seems.
When I joined here with my quest with new aids, I would be exhausted after half an hour of such dinner party. Hell I wouldn’t even attempted that because of previously experienced anxieties in less intense environments. Feeling of being left out of the conversation is not easy to cope with.
Now I felt tired (like my head was a baloon), but after we got out of the apartment felt a bit better, also was able to drive for an hour (I recently started driving, so still under a lot of anxiety, and this was my first highway ride, and our car is loud but less than this party), and we watched some streaming at home. So it didn’t put me out of service for days, I just needed a bit of breaks. And I totally enjoyed the company and conversation and I remembered a lot about people.
Also, I’ve realised several months ago that I have ADHD with autism, plus anxiety and so on and so forth.
And still, I had a great time.
So my single advice to everyone would be - do BT streaming of as clear voices as possible, so podcasts, audiobooks, tv shows that has some dialogs to follow. And do that daily, even for a little bit, but if you have time and will for more, do as much as you can, it will pay out with fat interests.