I have had two issues. One being a flutter type, but this is improved and now have a tinkling / whistling issue especially with hearing music and sounds at that frequency.
I too have no serious feedback issues when cupping ears with my hands, which makes it even more odd. See below for my moulds. I have no vents. I did have the same as yours previously.
I feel I can hear more clearer and sharper now but probably a combo of REM and increasing the power to 105db as they were restricted to 85dB previously.
Just to compare, I put my OPN BTE PPs back on and didn’t have any issues listening to music etc and I got more feedback externally with them when cupping my ears etc.
Would you mind sharing what your settings are? For example, feedback analyser/ optimiser settings?