You both have my extreme empathy @Johnmurphy & @Phoebe, perhaps it is much worse to live with a progressive loss, learning to adapt every year or so can take its toll, especially the mental aspect on you both… Personally, I was flung in at the deep end, with severe bilateral SSNHL, in my 30’s… Things went rapidly downhill a short few years later, with other hearing complications, severe bilateral Tinnitus, Recruitment, and Meniers Disease, Balance problems, closely followed by Depression, and latterly Anxiety… The latter was for me, the most significant, I had no control over Anxiety, and after 6 years on the “Beta Blockers”, I stopped them last week after consulting with my doctor, it was a tough shout, but hopefully I will progress? Meniers was destroying my vestibular, and gradually with every vertigo attack, destroying what little residual hearing I had left! As soon as I was diagnosed with Meniers (1994, I believe, and there is no cure) I then came to the self realization, I was going to have to live with a profound hearing loss, and knowing this, I decided to be more proactive, and take up BSL (British Sign Language) in conjunction with learning to Lipread, both of which, where most enjoyable to learn, with the added bonus, they where a massive confidence booster
I was offered to go for Cochlear Implant Assessment last year @joanhawsey, I declined that offer, for many reasons, I have a heart condition, I was about to retire, the rehab prospect didn’t fill me with deep joy, and ultimately there was a slim chance it might fail, and they would want to do my good ear, for the prospect of a more positive outcome! I have a few Roger Devices, which are excellent, and if I need to hear, I will use my Roger On, at say a doctor’s appointment, then I don’t miss anything vital… Hopefully both of you guys hearing loss, will start to slow down, but learning BSL, or indeed ASL, might be food for thought? Good Luck… Cheers Kev 