Hi, I am new to this forum. I am the mother of a wonderful little boy who is now 2 1/2. He’s had such a complicated history. I won’t go into it all, just enough to say he was born very early (23 weeks exactly) and we adopted him. He failed two hearing screenings (right ear only) in the NICU and we were referred to an audiologist. In October 2009, at the adjusted age of 2 1/2 months, he was found to have moderate to moderately severe hearing loss…pretty much a flat loss in each ear, the left one a moderate loss of 50 to 55, the right one a little worse at 55 to 65. It was across all frequencies, nothing better than 50/55. They repeated the test a couple months later with very similar results. They made sure his eardrums were turning at the time of the tests and the ENT checked for fluid in between the two tests as well. The loss was deemed sensorineural. We got his hearing aids that December.
Fast-forward to last February. I noticed my son was hearing a little better than he should have been without his aids. He couldn’t hear my whispers with his back turned, in the bath tub, but he could hear my very soft voice, maybe 35 or 40 dB. In March I was shocked when he heard the train inside our closed up house for the first time. It’s a good mile away, so not super loud. By July he was noticing the soft chimes from the church behind our home. In August I decided to check his whispers again and he could hear me well, back turned, a good eight feet away, and even somewhat at 12 feet away. Of course, our audiologist didn’t believe my tale for a long time, which I understand…sensorineural hearing loss isn’t supposed to get better. We tried to do two different booth tests last winter with him but he wouldn’t cooperate. He just cried or wouldn’t acknowledge the intern outside who was saying the same thing over and over to get him to look…after a couple looks, he was done. But probably a lot of 1 1/2-year-olds would have been too. The audiologist got a range of 60 to 70 at the time, in his better ear, even, and I told her there was no way. We finally were able to schedule an ABR during his tonsillectomy last September and the results were pretty astounding…his left ear had improved to 30 to 40 dB across the board and the right one had improved to 35 to 45 dB. The audiologist doing the testing (not his regular one) couldn’t explain it, except to say that maybe he was so sick early on that things took a while to get going, but she assured me whatever improvement had come must have happened right after that last infant ABR, at 4 months corrected, and that it hadn’t gotten better since. But I knew differently because I lived the progression last year, when my son was a toddler. Although we were very happy with the ABR results confirming his improvement, it still didn’t seem to match what I was seeing at home.
Well, just this week I decided to test him once more without his aids. I had read about the whisper test the army used to use and decided that was somewhere to start. So I turned his high chair around and measured 15 feet with a tape measure and asked him a series of 7 questions, all whispered…things like “What does a cow say?” “What does a cat say?” “What does a chicken say?” etc. He was 7/7, no problems at all differentiating even cat and cow, whispered, at 15 ft. I was shocked because I knew that meant he could possibly have normal/minimal hearing, at least at the frequency I was whispering at. The phone rang right then; it was my mom and I told her the good news. As I hung up the phone in the other room, I was walking back and wondering in my head if I had whispered softly enough, so I whispered one of the questions again, so I could hear it: “What does a sheep say?”…and lo and behold he answered me! This was way back of where I had been before. So excitedly I began asking him some things from back there, including, “Do you want to go out and play?” All whispered, and he said, “Outside pay” as he signed both. I couldn’t believe it. He got the majority, though not all, of the things I asked at that distance. Then I measured it to compare–it was 24 feet! From my own research and calculations, I found that a typical whisper is 30 dB at 3 feet, and that when you double the distance you lose 6 dB, but even more is lost if it’s high frequency. I assume whispers would count as high, but even if they didn’t, that would mean he heard and undestood quite a bit at just 12 dB. Is that even possible if his range is truly only 30 to 45? And actually 40 to 45 at the 4000, where I am going to guess whispers may be? I would totally think not, but when I called his audiologist to relay everything, she said that sometimes her children with mild losses can hear her, she’s noticed, in her little testing room, sans aids. But I am assuming she means in a talking voice, not a whisper. And I know it couldn’t be from 24 or even 15 feet, as those are cubby hole rooms! It was like she downplayed everything again (it’s been that way kind of all along).
Am I putting too much hope into this, or do my findings have merit? Can most people with mild to moderate loss (and nothing normal or slight at all in their range) hear whispered voices, with backs turned, so far away? She asked if there was background noise and I said no, but I don’t think I could undestand a whisper at that distance with background noise. She basically seemed to imply that what I witnessed, in quiet, could be possible for someone with a mostly mild level of loss. But isn’t the decibel level at each frequency supposed to be the softest sound you can hear well? Could a person who’s softest registered decibel is a single 30 at the 2000 in the left ear understand 100 percent of whispers at 15 feet and 75 percent at 24 feet with back turned? I would think it’s impossible, but I guess I am looking for confirmation on that from people who know a lot more about hearing loss and testing than I do. I need to get all the info I can before we head in for a booth test on Friday, because I am not sure what will happen even if we get good results. I am just hoping he cooperates this time, and since he’s older now, maybe he will. They will do a game version this time with him, so he may think it’s more fun. I just need some advice and encouragement, I guess. I realize that everything that’s happened so far with my son goes against everything his audiologist was taught about sensorineural hearing loss, the amount of improvement he’s shown. And here I am claiming even further improvement. I can understand how it would be hard to come to terms with, but at the same time, I want what’s best for my son. He’s going to be entering preschool this August and the last thing I want is for him to go in there with his aids blaring. He has started really fighting us on putting them in and it’s even brought tears. I asked him if they just hurt to go in or are they loud, and he said loud. His speech therapist has noticed no difference in sessions with or without his aids now either. Basically, she thinks it is just a minimal loss now too and she had the ABR level pegged right last year, so she’s good at estimating losses, it seems. And there are other things…he wakes up from his nap on the second floor anytime my husband and I talk in normal voices on the first floor, so we have to remember to talk in hushed voices only while he’s sleeping. I even wake him up occasionally when I clear my throat downstairs!
I am really nervous that he won’t perform and I will have a real dilemma on my hands about what to do with the aids. Luckily we have 6 months to get a good test in before preschool starts though. Thanks for reading and sorry it’s so long! Any advice or improvement on my math or my understanding of the different levels of hearing loss and what’s possible and what’s not at a certain level, anything at all I may be missing or need to know before our booth test, is appreciated. Also, does a booth test where the patient is found to be cooperative trump an ABR? I have heard that it should, because of the “brain factor” that is involved with hearing, but I am still unsure myself of what we’ll find.