Hearing Aids part-time?

hask you make me laugh, lol. actually i am feeling a bit sheepish, but am still glad i asked, regardless of how daft this surely must make me appear, how unfathomable it must be for you and others to see my audi report and wonder how it can be…that i am just so stunned to find out how bad my hearing really is.

it’s a real eye opener for me too, an education in itself just comparing my chart to others here. what can i say i guess i have a ‘gift’ (?) for normalizing the abnormal. there are far worse things, imo, than my hearing condition, which i regard and experience in my life as an inconvenience more than impairment. my attitude towards this issue is rather casual i guess, i’ve always had bigger fish to fry and haven’t really spent much time/energy lamenting or worrying about it as much as i’ve just looked for simple ways of coping and adapting so i can focus on stuff that matters more to me.

i can still hear the doorbell and the smoke detector btw, teaching my dog was more a preventative measure, an ‘in case one day’ sort of thing. i also taught her sign language, not for any predictive reason at the time, but something that has proved invaluable now, as she can’t hear my commands anymore, but still responds to hand signals. i’m actually more worried about her hearing loss than my own, don’t know how i’ll take her for walks this summer at the off leash area when she can’t hear me calling her.

ok well i can’t hear the doorbell if i’m down in the far corner of the basement, and i can’t hear the oven timer unless i’m standing next to the stove. i must admit i do feel a sense of irresponsibility to some degree in that i can’t hear police, ambulance or firetruck sirens until said vehicle is right alongside me. to that end i am somewhat hyper-vigilant when driving, and rarely have the car stereo on, never in the city.

my first hearing test was about 12 years ago, no underlying medical conditions. i’m adopted, and do not know my genetic history, my audi speculates that my condition is a combination of congenital factors and noise damage. she thinks i’ve probably been partially deaf my whole life, just never noticed. tho i was tested in school when i was 8, seems my hearing was fine then. i get tested yearly, so far my hearing is stable, tho a bit of a drop in the 500 - 1000 range on the last one. i also have tinitus 24/7, but am rarely if ever bothered by it.

as for wearing part-time…yeah i sort of guessed it would be counter-productive. but i know i wouldn’t wear aids while working, far too great a risk of ruining them. also much of the time my first priority is hearing protection on a job site, i work new construction a lot, so everything from air compressors to jack hammers going at once sometimes. even my custom ear plugs are not enough on occasion and i have to leave. i end up working a lot of evening and weekends when no-one else is around when that happens.

jay man, thank you for that link, i was looking for specs on the resound dots earlier today, i wonder why the ha practitioner would tell me they were ‘highly suitable’ i think is how she put it. i think i’ll look for someone else.

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First of all welcome here, this board should prove very useful to you and allow you to improve your lifestyle greatly. I will ‘pile on’ with everyone else that once you get a set of instruments that work for you, you should not only wear them all the time, you will want to!

HL is the hearing level, this is how loud the voice that was used to test your comprehension level (80 db is pretty loud, certainly above normal conversation level). Comprehension is done with a work list designed to trip you up (death?desk?deaf? they sound pretty similar to a lot of us).:stuck_out_tongue: SRT is the hearing level, this how loud a sound must be for you to hear a word that will not trip you up (i.e. baseball), I believe this is also set where your comprehension is 50% for hearing the word. You could probably google how to read an audiogram and get much more information.

I have not seen anyone address your concern of wrecking your aids while painting and you are wise to be concerned with this. There are probably several solutions to this. The first of which I don’t like is to insure them for repair and deal with a nonending series of repairs. The second is to protect them from paint. It may take some looking, but I am sure somewhere you can turn up something that will pass for a painters cap that will cover the instrument from splatters. If you know someone who is handy on a sewing machine maybe you can get one custome made. Perhaps even taking a pair of sissors to something like this http://store.stringslinger.com/3536.html would do the trick.

There are always a million excuses for not getting hearing aids. If you want them you’ll get them. Your audiogram says you need them. Whether you get them or not is up to you.

I think with most of us people don’t “know” how much they can’t hear. I give the example of wearing glasses. I tried for years to tell everyone that I couldn’t see clearly and was told my vision was 20/20. After going to several Dr etc I found one that said your vision is perfect but you have astigmatism. I could pass all of the reading test but what was happening was I was seeing double or more of everything. Move forward and I get glasses. I walked out the door wearing new glasses and remember thinking…WOW I can see all of the leaves on the trees.

Now with hearing aids I did the same thing…WOW I can hear the birds. I didn’t realize how much I had been missing even though I knew my hearing was bad.
I would have gotten aids sooner but I was working doing industrial electronics. I was around large robotic devices all day and wore ear plugs so I didn’t see a reason to spend the money just to wear them at home. Well I was wrong. I kick myself for not getting them sooner.

I was missing out on so much but didn’t know it!!!

I am blessed with hearing loss. I wear mine at work and come home without them. My (2) boys are pretty loud now and all night long and it drives my wife crazy. I can hear them but not as loud. I ask my wife if the TV is too load and she said she can live with it. I will continue to wear aids part time until it bothers my family. You adopt to your surroundings my ear doctor says. You have probably learn to lip read along with other things to make up for your hearing loss like myself over the last 30-years. I live on a lake and love that I can wear my aids and listen to the wildlife like never before. I also love to take them out at night and enjoy the silence.

Everyone’s situation is different, everyone’s loss is different. Living at home alone is different then living at home with a family. The man asked if he should buy aids and wear them all the time. Based on his audiogram and speech comprehension the answer is yes. Whether others who’s loss is different or situation is different, and whether they wear their aids or not is really not the question here. I envy those that can get by without wearing their aids. This man’s loss is severe/profound, speech comprehension is poor. He admits he doesn’t hear a lot of things, and that’s only what he is aware of.

csdaly and leia…sorry for the delay in responding to your posts, you’ve both given me much to think about, thank you for sharing your personal experiences here. it’s reassuring to hear about how you’ve both been able to adjust and adapt HA to fit personal lifestyle choices. i sorta see myself as someone who would take the HA off at the end of the day, embracing silence again with much relief, but who knows…

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thanks for the welcome, zafdor, and for explaining the terminology so clearly. i’ve been digging into the archives here, and have found a wealth of knowledge. having spoken only briefly to one hearing aid practitioner who told me the dot 30’s are suitable for me when in fact they are not, i realize how important it is to be educated about this technology and my options so that i can make an informed decision about what will suit my needs and personal preferences.

i found a link to the ear gears that someone else in this thread i think was alluding to, those might be just the ticket. i’m pretty creative and have some sewing skills, i might just come up with my own solution one day. anyway, there are so many options i don’t even know about yet, i won’t be making any hasty decisions one way or the other, as in all things, proper discernment is key.

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yeah, aside from mere circumstantial differences between your lifestyle and my own, i can really relate to what you’re saying here. silence for me is a blessing, i love solitude and quiet hours. but i love nature too, and i do miss hearing birds, crickets and other critters, and i miss hearing my own hearbeat. i don’t miss the sound of flies or mosquitoes buzzing tho, lol. i have a few mp3 files of nature sounds…rain and thunderstorms, garden soundscape, night time in the forest etc etc that i love and listen to often. i’m sure i would be absolutely tickled to hear such sounds for real again.

just an aside and an fyi as if it matters, but i’m a woman. a blonde one…it doesn’t really happen often, but i find the most annoying thing about my hearing is that people who don’t know i can’t hear well think i’m stupid…just a dumb blonde. especially when i have that look of intense concentration on my face…they think i’m straining to comprehend because i’m being taxed intellectually. it’s amazing how some people don’t understand when i tell them i am partially deaf, they seem to think i’m making it up…for what purpose i have no idea, to cover for being dimwitted or something i guess. well as i said, it doesn’t happen often, most people are understanding and i have no hesitation, nor feel any embarrassment when asking someone to face me and speak up when talking.

I am a guy, but had the same sort of problem before I got my hearing aid. The thought of a hearing problem doesn’t cross most peoples mind when they are talking to a 30 year old.

I read somewhere about a guy who protected his aids with a retrofitted baloons. You might want to google this. Then again why not just wear a wide brimmed hat while your working?

You can buy hearing aid sweat bands, Ear Gear covers, or Super Seals latex covers here:

http://www.adcohearing.com/haa_hear_aid_acc.html

I like it when people talk slower.:confused:

the balloon idea is genius! i was thinking today as i put on latex gloves that i could cut a finger off these disposable gloves i use all the time and cover them with that in a pinch.

ok…got some saving/financial sorting to do, i will look into getting a trial pair of some sort soon and post an update then.

many thanks to everyone, sometimes i just need to be prodded a bit to shake off the dust of old habit/complacency.

Check out EAR GEAR

www.gearforears.com

They make protective covers for hearing aids…
That are rather inexpensive $ 25 or so.
They also come with or without a lanyard so you don’t loose them.

Also, Siemens are nano technology treated HAs for moisture etc resistence.

I think they also make a “water proof” model…

https://hearing.siemens.com/en/03-home/index-en.jsp

update:

ok, in the last week, i’ve been round to a bunch of hearing aid stores/offices, just stopping in wherever, including costco, a chain store i can’t remember the name of now, walmart and several private practices. just picked up a few brochures, tried to get a feeling for the place, level of professionalism, competence, friendliness, atmosphere, that sort of thing.

it’s been an interesting and eye opening experience, to say the least. the way it usually goes is of course, is a brief hello and with the audi/fitter, mentioning that i’ve been hoh for at least 13 years and am only now seriously considering aids. then i show him/her my audiogram…and see their mouths drop open and their eyes widen in complete disbelief.

they all say the same thing…they can’t believe i’ve been able to cope/manage with this level of hearing loss for so long, and to my surprise a similar comment from each…they can’t believe my speech is so good, you can’t tell from my speech that i am so hard of hearing.

forgive my naivete in all this, please…gosh i’m just astounded at the reaction i’m getting. i keep thinking i can’t be as deaf as all these people think i am based on what is on a piece of paper. it isn’t denial so much as ignorance, i guess my capacity to cope exceeds my capacity to recognize how bad my hearing is. i know it’s pretty bad, but…well…wow.

last week i sent my audiogram in to that ebay seller, and after one or two emails, i decided online was not the way i would go. after researching here and reading about personal experiences, i realize that i will need extensive personal service and care, and most likely several trials before i can even possibly make a wise decision.

she offered me a better price on the dot 30s, but since i researched more in the meantime based on what hask told me about the dots probably not being strong enough for me, i said thanks but no thanks, and expected that to be the end of it. to my surprise, she came back and offered me a price on a pair of power azure az80 dvi’s that i simply could not refuse. i can’t imagine she is making any profit on these, i can only surmise that she took pity on me based on my audiogram???

before i took her offer, i made sure i could have them programmed locally. i found a local resound dealer and called the office (really close to my home…bonus!) to inquire about programming these aids. the audi/fitter at this office has over 20 years fitting experience, and the receptionist cheerfully said yes come see us, no problem, they’ll be happy to work with me even though i didn’t buy from them. the fitting fees were much more reasonable than i expected, so i decided to take a chance on these azures. i am not one to make impulsive or uninformed decisions about such important matters, and in fact, for several days after i sent the payment, i was feeling really anxious and worried.

will i love them will i hate them, will the azures be a good fit for me or not, i have no idea yet, but i do anticipate that it may take months of adjustments before i am able to accept or reject them. so to that end, i am committed to being patient and tolerant. if i don’t like them, well…i’ll donate them or sell them, i’ve decided that i will have no regrets about making this decision, no matter the outcome.

my basic understanding from what i’ve learned here and elsewhere, is that when it comes to premium level aids, it is likely that i would find any of the top brands a good fit, it seems the biggest factor towards success is in finding a good audi. having never worn aids before, i have nothing to compare to, no unreasonable expectations, so surely that will work in my favor, at least to some degree as well.

ok, i expect the azures to arrive in a couple of days, they will come programmed to my specs, but i have no delusions that i will be able to put them on and wear them right out of the gate.

if it is of interest, i will start another thread and sort of blog about my experience, good or bad…i’m not certain there’s anyone else out there as clueless as i am about all of this, but surely there will be some nugget in my experience that will help someone else, now or in the future. i’m resolved towards keeping a positive attitude, as i know this will contribute hugely towards a successful and satisfying outcome.

at your post cajabu, because every time I’ve been a new audi, I get the exact same reaction. “How do you get by?” “You speak so well?”

It sounds very insincere.

I am looking forward to reading your experiences; I have been wearing at least one aid for 45 years and I still learn something new here every day.

Some things to keep in mind. Buying aids without first trying them is definitely not the way I would have gone, but what’s done is done. Consider getting yourself fitted with a pair of custom made ear molds. With your loss ear molds will need to fit snug, to help prevent feedback, although the azures have feedback control programmed in. A product called Miracell is an ointment that you spread lightly on the molds that make is much easier putting the molds into your ears. When you first turn on your Azures after they are initially programmed it will seem like the whole world is SCREAMING at you. Be ready for it. Welcome to what you have not been hearing. Also the sound of the aids will probably be different then what you are used to. The brain will need time to adapt to all the changes, but it will, You will need patience. Wear the aids for a few days just in the apartment. Get used to just wearing them, get used to just the sounds within your apartment. I don’t recommend you immediately wear them to work which you admit is very noisy. BE PATIENT. After wearing them for a week or so start taking notes. Write down what you like or not like, then take your notes to the audiologist for reprogramming. Your audiogram is just a place to start. Digital aids can take 4 or 5 visits to the audiologist in order to get the programing the way you like it. For instance the volume at first may seem too loud, but after wearing the aids for a couple of weeks you may want it turned up louder. Remember, digital aids usually require several visits to the audiologist to get them right. BE PATIENT. And also remember that once you get used to wearing the aids you will need to wear them regularly, in order to allow your brain to adapt which it will, but only if you give the brain the chance. Good Luck. One other thing. The azures come with 4 seperate programs. each setting can be made for different listening environments. Make sure you understand what that is. Talk to you audy about them. If you decide that you like the aids invest in dry and store. I know this all seems like a lot but you have fought yourself about your loss, and now you have a lot of catching up to do. People that tell you that you don’t need to wear your aids routinely, considering your loss, are kidding themselves. i have been wearing aids for over 30 yrs. and though my loss is a bit worse then yours I am well aware of the fact that compared to what I hear with my aids, without them I am deaf.

john…insincere??? what???

:smiley: crumb i’m such a sucker for it then, lol.

my favorite is when i tell a new acquaintance i’m partly deaf and they look at me in surprise and say (some version of):

“wow…you don’t look deaf, i would have never guessed it.”

hask, thanks for your interest, and all your advice. i very much like and appreciate the way you just shoot from the hip when you speak.

believe me i know this could turn out to be a recipe for disaster. well except that i’m prepared for it, should it happen. i can handle it, if this turns out to be disappointing, difficult, frustrating, any or all of that…it will be ok.

it’s an experience. good bad or ugly, i know it’s not about what happens next so much as how i choose to react to it all. so no matter what, it’s all good.

last week when i was getting prices for all these different aids i thought…wow…ok well i better start saving, maybe in a year i can afford them if work doesn’t fall off too sharply. if i’m meant to get hearing aids now, then it will somehow happen. i’m a firm believer that everything happens when it should, as it should, the timing of events in my life has always been precise and purposeful, so to be for or against anything is simply counter-productive. the opportunity presented itself to me to get these now, i trust in providence that it’s meant to be, and although i have my preferences, i have no attachment to any particular outcome.

what will be, will be, and i’m cool with it.

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I don’t know if this has already been pointed out to you, but you have been lip reading…unconsciencly. We all do it to a certain degree.