I’ve have Subaru’s starting in 1975. A 2013 Forester & an Impreza. Great cars but still not quiet enough. They still fall into the truck category. I love the Hyundai Tucson. Everyone’s hearing is different. IMHO, pick several vehicles you like and test drive them. Not the typical test drive which is less than 30 minutes, but for an hour or so on all types of roads & traffic. After zoning in on 1 or 2, tell the dealers you would like to use the car for a day or two. Most if not all have Courtesy Cars so it is doable.