I understand. For close to 10 years I was a die hard, very hardcore Android enthusiast. I tried an iPhone after I got the hearing aids, and was stunned how well they interfaced with the hearings aids! I had the same reasons to avoid Apple as many here.
I am also a function over form person, and learning how well the iPhone worked, I switched, returned the Phone Clip+, shelving my Google Pixel 2 XL. I am NOT going to limit / handicap myself with stubborness over cell phone brands / manufacturers, I was a tech in the early cell phone industry for a major carrier in the last 80s into the early 90s.
Most hearing aids to not use bluetooth for voice / streaming, but a higher frequency protocol. Apple tapped into that with Made for iPhone technology, Android did not. Android is developing A.S.H.A to resolve that, very few HAs or phones support that now, much less than half dozen. Phonak is addressing using standard bluetooth to link the same way to Android and Apple phones, A very limited number of HAs have that ability, many many phones do have it.
Things are changing, but it will still be a few years before good choices and selections will be available.
As an aside, the Apple iPhone 11 / iOS 13.x dumpster fire fiasco soured me a little on Apple somewhat. In the past Apple had the “it just works” functionality. Many of us went through tremendous frustration during that iOS change, some HAs not working with a iPhone, so very poorly working. Bluetooth had major issues, I use a BT blood pressure cuff twice a day for monitoring BP, and it stopped working.
The local Apple store had me for hours very day for a few weeks. They were good about helping, this store where I live was not used to an older tech capable early adopter. All their easy replies had been tried before I got there. They had to dig deep and think hard to move forward.