OK, to conclude this topic (besides possible q&a later on), I returned the phonaks, siwtched to Unitron and also returned those unitrons.
Reasons for this: These are great HA if you don’t know any better and compared to the devices I had earlier. Fortunately, I had the opportunity to learn to know better, (in my case, your experience may very well vary). I switched to Oticon More.
What a relief. Not in every aspect, but at least totally in the main aspect, the sound.
Compared to the phonak/unitron, these devices shape the sound without disturbance. I just have them in and barely notice them adapting. It feels so… natural. Of course I don’t have the slightest idea of what ‘natural’ actuall is, but if i would suggest, his would come close. Are they shaping? Oh yeah, because when I switch to the music program I get way more sound. And when I open up the window in my car, I notice the device is working hard to keep other stuff audible (and does a very reasonable job on that). But when I do switch back from that music program it does not feel like I am crippling things again. I think Oticon did an awesome job on these.
Tested the tier 1 first. Am testing the tier 3 now, just to see the difference. And yes, there are diferences, however I am in doubt whether these are big enough to rationalize the price differences.
Are the Oticons perfect? No. the phonaks/unitrons had one huge advantage. Which is the calling directly via the hearing aids. Just like any other bluetooth headset. That works awesome and I miss it. After having experienced that, working with that clumsy connectclip sucks bigtime. (Really, Oticon, this totally does not fit to such anotherwise advanced device). And the windblock on the phonaks/unitrons did a better job.
However primairily it is the sound that matters. And for that Oticon it will be. Now yet to decide which tier finally.