From what I can remember, you’ll need the TV Adapter version 3.0 in order to work with the OPN and OPN S as well, not just with the More. The version 2.0 is very old and won’t work with the OPN/S/More.
If I remember correctly, I’ve tried using my TV Adapter 3.0 with the HAs’ mics on and the latency is not noticeable enough for me. The speaker sound and the stream sound seem to meld together. But @biggar is right that if you mute the HAs, the streamed sound alone seems to sound cleaner. But I think it’s more a matter of personal preference and you may be OK with hearing the combined sounds to be able to pick up the environmental sounds like talking with your wife. I also use the optical input to the TV Adapter, but I really doubt that using the RCA input would cause any further latency.
The ConnectClip would be an overall better choice in my opinion if your TV setup has a Bluetooth option, simply because you can use it with other BT support devices and are not limited to just using it with TVs only like with the TV Adapter. However, I think the price to pay would be the latency on the BT connection between the TV and the ConnectClip. If you plan to have the HAs mics on to pick up the environmental sounds, you may notice the lag on the ConnectClip more significantly than with a TV Adapter. But you may not either. It’s hard to say unless you try it because it depends on how fast the BT connection from your TV really is. I’ve once tried the ConnectClip with BT from my Android phone AND the Apple Airpods via BT to the same Android phone together because this phone supports dual BT connections, and I definitely notice a lag between the 2 sources. Of course I can’t tell which device is lagging the other, my ConnectClip or my Airpods, or perhaps it’s the Android phone that causes the delay if it sends out 2 consecutive BT signals to the 2 devices as opposed to 1 BT signal to both simultaneously. I admit that I don’t really know how the BT protocol works for dual BT connection (sending 1 BT signal or 2 consecutive BT signals one after another with the separate paired signatures).