If you are going to be here for a while you should enter your audiogram (see Tips in Forum Support category).
Also, Iām not sure about your short/long term experience wearing hearing aids? But hearing-aids-too-loud is a common new-to-hearing-aids complaint when the actual problem is that you brain has become accustomed to a muted/comfortable soundscape and maybe you need to retrain your pesky brain to get along with a noisy soundscape.
I like it when the soundscape is loud. Though, YMMV 