saburman, I can TOTALLY relate to your situation here. Three years ago, I transitioned from the hard plastic, custom molded ITE aids to RIE aids with the earwires attached to the unit behind my ear. I’ve tried double power domes, tulip domes, custom molded silicone molds - you-name-it, I’ve tried everything but titanium.
Here’s what I’ve come to realize: wearing receivers in the ear is like having a pair of glasses on the nose. You just have to reconcile yourself to pushing them into the canal 100 or more times a day. I know it’s irritating, but I’ve not seen one single device to keep the receiver and dome IN the ear, seated snug for optimum hearing and comfort. If you jam the mold in, you’ll have a compression sore at day’s end. If you wear a softer dome, it’s gonna come out as you articulate all day long: eating, smiling, laughing, yawning, sneezing, talking - all of these movements just work on the receiver to loosen it from the ear canal.
I’ve tried leashes of various length, even 3M medical tape to TAPE the earwire right next to my ear canal - nothing keeps those receivers from sloooooooowly working their way out. In humid climates, I can’t get any kind of receiver into my ear; in dry climates, the receivers slip out over the course of the day.
I’ve fantasized about laser-imaging my ear canal to get a mold that sits in that canal like my own SKIN - but I’ve simply never found anything out there that is a total fix.
Not that we should stop looking, but like a revelation, I finally GET it: don’t expect the receiver to stay in your ear all day! Accept that like eyeglasses, it’s gonna need to be gently pressed back in over and over.