I think it’s normal of your hearing loss is high frequency. Others I’ve talked to locally have made the same comment. It is possible to take the edge off of some of it. My audiologist did it saying it’s called “sound smoothing”.
Here is something I read on the Internet …
"One of the biggest shocks people experience when wearing new hearing aids is how loud everyday sounds now seem. The toilet flushing thunders like Niagara Falls! Clinking cutlery sounds like jackhammers. Initially, you may find you cannot stand rustling papers, running water and other everyday sounds.
However, with time, your brain will learn to turn down its internal volume control so these sounds become bearable. This is another reason you need to persevere during those first 90 days. Unfortunately, many people give up before this happens. If they had kept using their hearing aids a little longer, they would have succeeded."